Destabilizing Misconceptions: Exploring a Few Myths about Sexual Intimacy Among Elderly Individuals

 

Destabilizing Misconceptions: Exploring a Few Myths about Sexual Intimacy Among Elderly Individuals

Sexual intimacy is an essential component of an individual’s life at all stages of the cycle. The dominant public discourse on sexuality and sexual intimacy, however, that prevails is that sexual intimacy is the province of the young, not for the older people to engage in. The sexual functioning of older persons has received substantially little attention, perhaps springing mainly from the belief that older persons are asexual.

It becomes crucial to debunk the myths about sexual intimacy among elderly individuals and promote a more accurate understanding of older person’s sexuality. Here are a few common misconceptions:

1. Older people are no longer interested in sex- Asexuality is one of the prominent stereotypes that one experiences in old age, a product of social norms and religious beliefs. Aging leads to older adults experiencing some sexual changes. A decline in the testosterone level among older men and menopause among older women are often posed as the reasons for the decline of sexual intimacy among older persons. 
2. Older people no longer engage in sexual intimacy because they no longer find it enjoyable- older persons are often vested with the role of ‘carriers of tradition,’ and the dominant societal perception holds that this role outweighs their desires for sexual intimacy.
3. The need to broaden the definition of sexual intimacy- Sexual intimacy does not constrict itself to the physical act of sex but also involves the emotional closeness between partners. 
4. Older individuals do not need access to sexual health information and resources- Sexual health education and resources are crucial for all age cohorts. Providing older adults with accurate information about sexual health, addressing their concerns, and ensuring access to healthcare resources

By dispelling these myths and promoting a more accurate understanding of older person’s sexuality, we can foster a society that respects and supports sexual health and well-being across the lifespan.